Going on blind dates is always an adventure. It can be interesting or disappointing. Some people get desperate about love chance after them. So, how should we treat online dating like this?
Well, it's personal. Some people prefer risky blind dating. Some people opt for real dates face to face. Let's study the advantage and disadvantages of blind dates for singles.
Some people simply don't attract our attention. It's usually based on the stereotypes in our heads or on the opinions of the public. Blind dates give us a rare chance to get into a relationship with very decent men and women that you've never considered for a date before. That's a very rewarding experience that broadens our minds and makes us rethink a lot of our original intents.
As soon as you know almost nothing about a person you're dating, you may feel embarrassed and startled from the very beginning of your date. Usual online dating has a lot more to suggest in comparison to blind dates. It's highly important to know more about the background of a person and ask the right questions. You have to find out whether you have common interests and ideas. You'll need to test the waters and understand who is sitting in front of you. It's extremely awkward.
As soon as you've never met before, you don't have to create an ideal image in your mind. Your imagination won't have reason to expect something peculiar from a person you see for the first time. If you have nothing to expect – you have nothing to be disappointed. It's cool if the date is going well and it's ok if it ends with slight disappointment. Who cares what will happen if you have nothing in particular to expect?
There's a high risk that your partner will be so weird that you don't know how to react. Things may go very, very bad. You'll have a feeling you need to run away as fast as possible. The person in front of you can be a mumble, an aggressor, a weirdo, a freak, a poser or a yeller. Things may go so strange that you'll have to find an escape route in order to save yourself and your mental state.
Think positive and do your best to remember this “memorable event” in details. Online dating is a source of remarkable experience.